A FOUR **** LESSON:

DON’T BE QUIET WHEN YOU’RE ON THE PHONE TALKING TO ANOTHER WOMAN…
In my husband’s profession he works with many women. So what! I’ve never been nervous or suspicious. Even as a sinner (a non-believer in the true and living God) I was ‘smart’ enough to let him know where I stood on cheating. Cheat: and I’m gone! That’s fine with the Christian as well.

Romans 7:2-3
For example, by law a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man.

Often the ungodly person does right things!

Selah.

Beloved: I just warned Duane what I would do if he did mess around. Honestly (that is how I strive to live!) I fully knew and believed he’d never do that. And, I have to say I’ve never seen him look lustfully at a beautiful woman. He’s seen them. I’ve seen them! And we’ve also seen handsome men. Big deal! We’re beautiful too:

Genesis 1:27
So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.

MY POINT:
Be open and honest with your wife about dealing with other women. She’s not the only star in the sky.  As you love all people, including beautiful women, whether they be co-workers, neighbors, church family: admire them all for who they are… women made in God’s own image. Every woman is worthy to be prayed for, loved as God loves them, and respected!

And as you do this, your wife (if she is insecure or stupid) will come to realize you respect the softer sex!