AND, YOU DON’T KNOW IF THEY ARE WITH THE LORD? HERE’S WHAT I DO… If you remember, I have a son in Heaven and a sister. Absolutely I know they are with God and I will see them eventually. I am patient; they are fine, more than fine actually. Selah. Both of these people died unborn. My son (might be a daughter) went to the Lord when he was three months in my womb……