SOMETIMES (and often) you just have to say: “No.” I just came back from taking my beloved cat, Pewter, to the vet. Checkup time. No one told me there was construction there. No one told me to go to their other office – a different direction – instead. No. I actually got out of the car after first parking in the wrong lot (a dentist’s office building), turning around, coming back and trying again. I got out of the car…..