Crabby kind indeed! This is a story of a close encounter with a woman who loved to tell people she has cancer. And how she became very upset with me because I gave her the answer! Believe it or not… Beloved: start listening to people taking great pains (don’t forgive the pun) to detail their sickness, their meds, their struggles with such impressive medical knowledge of their personal affliction. And then: compare that with their knowledge and/or willingness to…..