TIP #8 TALK, BUT LISTEN… DUANE & I love to sit, drink coffee, cuddle the cat and dog while talking, sharing our day… I remember when we were first dating and he sat at the far opposite end of the couch. I remember how I felt the relationship was going and I was so excited! Still am! WIVES: as we sit and talk and share thoughts, be certain you deeply listen to his and build him up!…..